Is there any Wives out there who wishes their husbands would just grab you and make pionate love to you?

Im not questioning how much we love our hubbies nor do a want a big debate on life long partners and how much we should love and honour them, i just want to know is there any other wives out there who love their husbands but wishes they would maybe come home from work and just grab you while your washing the dishes and not take NO for an answer and just make out there and then or instead of a quick fumble between the sheets i dont know maybe come into the bathroom when your in the bath and again not take no for an answer and i dont mean you but more seduce you into it. My man is a bedroom man mostly he climbs on top and i stare at the ceiling, i do give him oral when we're in the living room wathcing tv and do things in different rooms to surprise him, i like being spontaneous but very very seldom does he do that, he'll practically say "would you like to have with me love" yawn yawn yawn!!!!!! Now dont go on saying i need to talk to him cos if i have to talk to him how is that spontaneous?????? That takes the good out of it